THe AP has made a bad decision

I agree with Defense Secretary Robert Gates that the AP should not publish the photo of a mortally wounded Lance Cpl Joshua M. Bernard. Cpl Bernard's Parents asked that the photo not be published. The Ap defended it's decision saying it "conveys the grimness of war and the sacrifice of young men and women fighting it.” HELLO? We are at war. We get it. Why "use" this soldier and his family to sell news? I can only imagine if it were a son of mine how I'd feel. Apparently those at the AP can not.